I know there are bound to be people that are arguing with me on this. If I have no hopes or expectations, does that mean I will not work towards anything? Does that mean I will not strive in life? Wrong. There are certain things where expectations is a MUST - like a career, a promotion or a raise. These are the needs in our lives and things we have control over.
I am talking about expectations on a more personal level. Expectations of friends; of that someone you like; of people around you. Everyday, we expect things from people around us - friends to care for us; a partner to love us; people to be more polite. And what happens when things don't turn out the way you want? Ah huh....you get disappointed, right?
So, to people asking me why I am so pessimistic about things, my rationale is simple. DON'T expect and you WON'T get disappointed. Anything that happens will be like a bonus.
P/S : I am happy in my life now and I am not having a depression once again. I am seeing someone; I am having a lot of new found buddies and I am going for a short vacation the day after tomorrow with someone hot (envy me...hah)! So no, I am not going through depression.
PP/S : I can't help it! I cut my hair and I just have to post up my latest gan-pua-si-lang-chio photos.
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Ta-dah! A close up UNDER THE SUN. Don't say I live in the dark anymore.
I do have a life in the day ok?
Two chio-bus at Sentosa....muahahahaha!
Look at Rach and me all tan after Sentosa. She is getting this hairstyle too.
I have a feeling we are going to get mistaken as sisters. ^_*
I have a feeling we are going to get mistaken as sisters. ^_*
My darling Fariz - who poses like Heidi Klum, dances like Beyonce and who is a darling like every girl's dream BFF.
My colleagues decided I look like Cleopatra.
And I can't decide if I like their comments.
My god-sister who turned up with the same hairstyle unexpectedly!
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