Someone once told me that a relationship between a couple will change after three years. This is due to the change of the human chemical reaction in our bodies. They will either become more loving and spend the rest of their lives together. Or at/ around that time, they will start to get annoyed at each other and can't wait to put a shotgun to each others' brains.
Ok, honestly, I can't remember who told me that no matter how hard I try to recall. And honestly, I don't believe this shit. And this is simply because I had been involved in relationships lasting from three months to a year to three and a half years and even to six years. Quite a record there but well, that is not the point. The point is - a person can just change just like that (hear the snap of the fingers?). You don't need a time frame to measure that.
A recent cancellation of an acquaintance's wedding has taught me that no matter how long a relationship is - they had been together for ten years - or how beautiful a future is mapped out, things can just change like that.
I wonder more often than I should if doing one's best is still enough or we should take the coward's way of just doing enough so as not to be hurt more deeply then we need to be?
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