Wednesday, November 28, 2012

Every woman should...

Few weeks ago, while clearing out the cupboards, I found all my old books and my old diaries. 

I realized......I haven't been reading much for the past three years. I forgot....how much I love to read and write. I miss those days when I can sit quietly by the beach for the whole day and finish a book. I miss those days when I can spend the night scribbling away in a fancy diary...

Then I came across this :


A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE - something perfect to wear if the employer or date of her dreams wants to see her in an hour.
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE - a youth she's content to leave behind.
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE - a past juicy enough that she's looking forward to retelling it in her old age.
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE - a set of screwdrivers, a cordless drill, and a black lace bra.
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE - one friend who always makes her laugh  and one who lets her cry.
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE - a good piece of furniture not previously owned by anyone else in her family.
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE - eight matching plates, wine glasses with stems, and a recipe for a meal that will make her guests feel honoured.
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE - a feeling of control over her destiny.
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW - how to fall in love without losing herself.
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW - how to quit a job, break up with her lover and confront a friend without ruining the friendship.
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW - when to try harder and when to walk away.
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW - that she can't change the length of her calves,the width of her hips, or the nature of her parents.
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW - that her childhood may not have been perfect but it's over.
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW - what she would and wouldn't do for love or more.
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW - how to live alone even if she doesn't like it.
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW - whom she can trust,whom she can't,and why she shouldn't take it personally.
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW - where to go: be it to her best friend's kitchen table or a charming inn in the woods when her soul needs soothing.
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW - what she can and can't accomplish in a day...a month...and a year.” 

― Pamela Redmond Satran

Not sure which sentence strikes a chord with you. But for me, well, I am heading out to get a cordless drill tomorrow.

Tuesday, November 27, 2012

Whatever will be, will be


There are thing that we don't want to happen but we 

have to accept.

Things we don't want to know but have to learn.

And people we can't live without but have to let go.

Unlike Fairytales, not everything ends in "happily ever after".

We are real people, so when it ends, and we fall badly, we stand up, heads

high and we strut forward - with a pair of new Christian Louboutins.